Tim: From the first page, until the last, I was riveted, awestruck and enthralled. I must confess, however, that I misunderstood the purpose of the book. I thought, mistakenly, that the book was a sequel to Not So Fast, and was in the same manner a teen driving manual advocating for parental involvement. Please accept my apology if I gave you the impression that this was another public service announcement (though that too would have had merit).
I wish I could express all of the thoughts, emotions and reactions I had to every page, story, thought and vivid description. The raw drama you were able to convey, although nothing like being there and experiencing it, gives us readers something of an understanding of the situation into which you were thrust headfirst.
I now understand the tragedy you experienced so much better. And, more importantly, I got to know Reid, albeit through you, and to know that he was a person I would have liked. You are indeed a talented curator of his legacy.
Our oldest son has many of the same qualities you described in Reid. In some chapters, I could have switched the names and everything would have remained equally true. I am sincerely grateful for your sharing, insights and lessons. I only hope that I am able to handle what is coming my way with some of the talent and excellence you instinctively exhibited.
My favorite part of the book was the chapter including the things for which you were thankful. I am thankful you included that.